Navigating the Void: Trusting Yourself in the Space Between
There’s a space between who you were and who you are becoming. A sacred, yet deeply unsettling void where everything feels uncertain, yet ripe with infinite potential. Maybe you’ve taken a bold leap—left a job, walked away from a relationship, or finally said yes to your next-level desires. Or perhaps, you’ve set powerful manifestations in motion, yet find yourself waiting in that awkward, in-between space where nothing seems to be happening.
This is the void. And it is here to teach you the art of trust. I know the uncertainty drives you crazy, I do, I live in this space often, but the more you visit this space it becomes more familiar (but never comfortable!)
The Discomfort of the In-Between
The void is not for the faint-hearted. It is a place where the old no longer fits, yet the new has not fully arrived. It can feel like floating in a cosmic limbo, where your usual markers of success and stability no longer apply. Doubt creeps in. Fear whispers that maybe you’ve made a mistake. The temptation to scramble back to what’s familiar is strong.
But here’s the truth: the void is proof that you are expanding. Growth isn’t instant it requires shedding, integration, and space for the new frequency to anchor in. The discomfort you feel isn’t a sign of failure; it’s a sign that your old identity is dissolving, making room for the upgraded version of you to emerge. I always say your new self will cost you your old one. That uncomfortable feeling is in a sense the morning of your past self.
Holding Self-Trust in the Unknown
When nothing external is validating your progress, self-trust becomes your lifeline. Trust that the universe is aligning every unseen piece. Trust that just because you can’t see the results yet doesn’t mean they aren’t coming. Trust that you are the kind of person who follows through on her desires, no matter how long the gestation period.
Instead of forcing clarity, allow yourself to be present in the uncertainty. The void isn’t a punishment it’s an initiation. It’s the space where your nervous system recalibrates to your new reality, where you prove to yourself that your dreams don’t require external permission to exist. You are learning how to hold your power, even when everything feels unclear. In this time I highly recommend meditating, keeping the focus of how it would feel to already have what you are desiring. I have a FREE higher self meditation you can access here.
The Art of Surrender and Alignment
Surrender doesn’t mean giving up. It means releasing control and allowing divine timing to work its magic. If you knew with absolute certainty that what you desired was guaranteed, how would you show up in this in-between phase? Would you soften? Would you enjoy the process more? Would you let go of the timeline and trust that your next level is already on its way?
Everything aligns at the right time. You are not behind. You are not stuck. You are in the sacred pause before the quantum leap. Hold yourself in love here. This void is not the end it’s the bridge.
What you can do
Meditate on the feeling of already having.
Journal on exactly what you want, best possible outcomes (the more you focus on it the more possible it becomes)
Do something else - The art of detachment is probably the most powerful law of the universe. Letting go is the biggest sign of trust, so when your focus is else where the universe sees that trust and often brings in what you want sooner! Win!
I know it feels challenging I do, I often visit this space and I’ll be honest I am in it right now (as I write this) but whats exciting for me is I know every time I have been here the other side is absolutely every bit worth the wait!
So breathe. Stay present. Trust yourself. And watch as everything unfolds exactly as it is meant to.
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Anything worth having is worth the wait!
Love and light xx