When It All Feels Like It’s Falling Apart: The Sacred Rebuild After the Eclipse
Eclipse season has a way of shaking things loose. I know you’ve felt it, relationships shifting, emotions rising to the surface, structures you thought were steady suddenly cracking. It can feel like chaos, like the ground is being ripped from beneath your feet.
But here’s the truth most women don’t realise, something I say all of the time, when it feels like everything is falling apart, it’s usually because you’re being stripped of what no longer serves you. The collapse is not your failure, it’s your initiation. The old timeline had to end so the new one could emerge!
Eclipses aren’t here to punish you. They’re portals of transformation, pulling you out of what is safe but stagnant, and into what is aligned but unknown. This season is asked you to release the old story the one that says you must hold it all together, force outcomes, or prove your worth by burning yourself out.
The breaking apart is sacred. It’s how the universe clears space for the rebuild. So if right now you feel like your life is in pieces just know that is the fertile soil in which the new can grow, similar to Autumn really. The fruit and leaves fall from the trees and disintegrate back into the earth in order to re grown again the next season.
For the high-achieving woman
You’ve built success. You’ve proven yourself. On the outside, it looks like you have it all. Yet on the inside, you may still feel the weight of trying to hold everything together. This eclipse has likely stirred up the little girl inside of you — the one who was told she was too much, too loud, or not enough.
She’s rising now, not to derail you, but to invite you back into wholeness. The chaos you’re experiencing is really a recalibration — your initiation into deeper trust, softer power, and leading from your divine essence.
How to navigate this “sacred rebuild”
Pause instead of forcing. The old way of pushing through no longer works. Create space to be instead of do. I know myself I have felt flu like symptoms inviting me to slow down completely, which is something I still struggle with but my body keeps the score and I know more than ever to listen to her!
Anchor into trust. Journal on this prompt: What is falling away that I’ve secretly been ready to release? Heres the thing, the things that are supposed to be in your life will be solid, what isn’t will fall. So if you have been through a breakup know that if you are supposed to be together you will find your way back and if not take this time to love you and I promise you the right love will find you in divine timing. Let nature do her thing!
Choose softness. Each time fear rises, remind yourself: I trust that what is crumbling is making way for my expansion. This one is hard trust me I am moving through this with you, but the moment we relinquish control is when we find true freedom!
The sacred rebuild isn’t about doing more, it’s about allowing your next level to emerge with grace.
This October, step into the rebuild with me
If you’re ready to move beyond the chaos and into the version of you who leads with confidence, trust, and ease, this is your invitation.
This month, I’m opening space for women who are ready to rise from the ashes of burnout, self-doubt, and external pressure, and rebuild their lives from a place of inner power. Together, we’ll silence the sabotaging voice, embody your confidence, and unlock the ease you’ve been craving.
✨ Work with me this October and let this eclipse be your turning point.
I have multiple ways for you to rebuild with clarity grace and confidence from a one off 1:1 session to 3,6 or 12 months. Take a look here to see my offerings. Alternatively my Inner Power Portal is a sacred space for women to reconnect with their true essence. Releasing what no longer serves you through the full moon sessions and calling in what is meant for you in the new moon sessions. Find out more here.
Because when it feels like it’s all falling apart, that’s exactly when your true self is waiting to emerge. It's time to support your transition into your most confident, happy, successful self.
Love and light,